What makes a man??

Well yesterday some one asked me what makes the man
Hmm after thinking a lot for me
A man has gamut of things that really makes him/her for some it may be honesty, persistence, perseverance, and many more like these.
Though these all seem to be a single word things but when we go in deeper and real sense of these words we find that they mean really lot in our complete persona
Every one has his own views about this so do I
And according to me basically 2 qualities one the FAITH & other RIGHT TO MAKE CHOICES

Let’s talk about first things first faith/trust
Though this is the simplest word. Although we all come across it too often in our daily life’s but at the same time it can be the most difficult thing to have yet everyone has it in the way or other.
When I say about faith it could be any one or every one. Faith on himself, faith in his/her decisions faith in his dear ones and faith in what he does; faith in the god is few to say.
But by faith I don’t mean the blind faith in either case

Faith on oneself builds the confidence in us. Because most often then not we doubt on our capabilities we surround our self with many self doubting questions of can I? Shuld I? Whether? What I am doing is right? In such dilemmatic situations faith on oneself makes u to solve all the range, and those who don’t have this tonic in life they more often then not are unsuccessful.
It is written in bible “one who has faith even as little as mustard seed will be successful”

Faith on our dear ones makes us to feel emotionally secured and happy.
Well this also helps them to build faith in u. which every man has the right to. The person who doesn’t have is one who is most unsecured in the world.

And above all faith is the Faith in god always makes you feel: no matter what will be the circumstances there is some one above all to take care of you and your dear ones. And one day all troubles can be solved.
Faith in god makes a man to face even the most adverse situations in life with smile and the wonderful moments of life with humbleness
For those who have partial faith in God. God becomes their punching bag too “because of who all has gone wrong”
These people never say these words when all things are running smoothly in their life, or when they have attained some thing in their life that “this is because of God”

So jest of all is that one who is sorrunded by the faith “kavach” can be the most suitable
In every deed in your life the most important thing is that u should have faith in your self, it is the most important component in a persons life that makes him the other most important thing is the CHOICE man is the result of choices he makes in life.
If am annoyed that’s not only because some body hurt me the more important is that I chose to feel annoyed in spite of being happy
Your choices make you learn in each and every moment of your life makes you feel f4esh
All our life’s weather professional personal or spiritual each and at every place we have to make choices and we get results according to the choices we make.
At every failure of your life u get 2 ways to learn from it and move forward and the other is to sit and enjoy the sorrow and troubles you got from that. Yes it is strange but we enjoy being sad because at that moment of life we have chosen to be sad.
So next time any trouble comes up your way simply ask what is my choice to fight that or to surrender to that or to fight with that
Name any one who is successful and happy and we will find in his earlier life he has chosen the correct paths, and from where this correct /right path emerged they emerge from faith and trust.
Faith in oneself faith in the supreme power .faith in the uniqueness of ours

So into totality man is
What man is the result of choices he make .and how a man is the result of faith he has.